After School Updates: The Masks We Live In

For many young men, we don’t get to a place where we are truly comfortable with ourselves until maybe our late 20s, or even later. And some of us never ever get to that place! Instead, we wake up every morning and put on a ‘mask’ that helps us navigate the world and helps us control how other people view us. For many of the children and youth I’ve worked with, the feelings behind their masks are fear, sadness, and anger. And when when we are not able to or not allowed to let down our mask, those emotions never get addressed and we get boxed in.

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Mental Health First Aid and Men’s Mental Health

There’s a good chance that you completed a First Aid course when you were younger, maybe for a lifeguarding or babysitting job. I remember CPR practice on dummies, Heimlich manuever demos, and learning about heat stroke and hypothermia and burns and broken bones. With so many people trained in First Aid at some point in their life, there’s usually at least one person who is quick to offer their help when someone is choking or looks like they are having a heart attack.

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How Will You #CheckYourBoys?

We’ve really been loving SoulPancake‘s ‘That’s What He Said’ series, which now has four episodes up on YouTube. The premise is very simple: get a group of 10 guys together to talk about issues like self-esteem and body image, dating and relationships, and gender equality. They’re definitely aligned with Next Gen Men’s mission to unpack society’s narrow ideas about masculinity, but I think what I really appreciate about the discussions is the honesty with which these guys are reflecting on and sharing their stories publicly.

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Domestic Violence

One of the most challenging, but worthwhile, events I attended for International Women’s Day in Toronto, was the screening of Private Violence, a documentary on domestic violence in America. As I mentioned to one of the panelists after, it was a heavy topic even just to watch a documentary about, and I came away with the utmost respect for the individuals and organizations who provide advocacy and supportive services in this field, not to mention the many women who have experienced and continue to experience domestic violence firsthand.

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The Genesis

Thanks to an amazing opportunity from Movember Canada, we have the resources to launch our first school-based programs for young men in the Greater Toronto Area in 2015, and we plan to expand our reach in the coming years. We believe that starting the conversation about what it means to be a man with young males at a crucial point in their lives will have a lasting impact on their physical, mental, emotional, and sexual health and development, and a positive influence within our communities.

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